I wish I could meet more people with the same attitude, especially as an unexperienced beginner. It would help against anxiety and just take of the pressure of presenting yourself as this marble perfection.
I’d love to oblige you. For me, knowing that my penis has ‘communed’, if you will, with that person’s natural state of being, is close to my heart. A caring and intimate partner will always appreciate the opportunity to experience your body the way it is, not some ‘prepped’, antiseptic version. Had a woman once tell me she always wanted a man to just enjoy her ass without worrying about her smell, bits of goo, etc. I told her the more natural she is, the more powerfully I am turned on.
I would prefer the bottom not prep and do it au naturel. Part of the allure of anal sex, for me, is the taboo nature and original function of the anus. Getting messy, hetero or Bi, is always exciting and an aphrodisiac for me.